

Earlier this 12 months, I shared the primary put up in our Wit & Delight entertaining sequence, “The best way to Host a Informal Dinner Occasion.” This sequence is a collaboration between me and my good friend Lisa. Each avid hosts, we needed to share concepts for entertaining which are approachable and particular all of sudden. I’m so enthusiastic about our second entertaining sequence installment: The Dessert Occasion!
Life is full within the weeks main as much as the top of the 12 months. Discovering time to attach with family and friends can fall by the wayside, particularly for these in a season when young children are a part of their day by day routine.
Since engaged on this sequence, I’ve realized the fun of planning forward. Fascinated about methods to chop again on labor and make issues particular is a lot simpler while you’re not working on impromptu plans. Lisa and I needed to place collectively a menu that may work for a day gathering—suppose afternoon teatime, however with desserts. The idea has you delegating recipes and obligations to associates, which is each collaborative and enjoyable!


What Is a Dessert Occasion?
The thought of a dessert social gathering is to take pleasure in dessert and snacks with associates or household. The menu might be informal and the workload might be cut up between visitors so everybody makes one thing to share. This entertaining concept is ideal for the vacation season however it may be executed any time of 12 months.
The great thing about this sort of social gathering is that it’s fully versatile. It may be on a weekend afternoon or night. The visitor record might be intimate or massive. You possibly can sit round a eating desk or—like we did—merely collect round a espresso desk in the lounge. Right here’s what our dessert social gathering entailed.


Come Over For… A Dessert Occasion
Visitor Record
There have been six folks on our dessert social gathering visitor record, together with myself. I invited just a few associates who like to bake and some associates who would quite carry savory snacks. I believe six is the right quantity, however a celebration like this works properly for scaling the visitor record up or down.




Menu
As a result of dessert is so indulgent, we designed the menu to incorporate each candy and savory treats. Lisa developed every of the dessert recipes. A couple of menu gadgets require extra time and ability; others simply require a visit to the shop. Three folks baked desserts, three folks collaborated on the charcuterie board, and I offered the bubbles because the host.
For drinks, I like to recommend going with one thing particular like Billecart Brut Rose or one thing for on a regular basis consuming like Il Mostro Frizzante BIANCO. For these not imbibing, attempt Dry Wit Pippi.
Right here’s what our menu seemed like:
- Ricotta Olive Oil Cake With Cardamom, Orange, and Pistachio Butter
- Poached Pears With Whipped Brie Frosting and Cinnamon Oat Crumble
- Zesty Orange and Chocolate Shortbread Cookies
- Charcuterie Board
- Bubbles






Schedule
Nearly every thing might be executed forward of time, so the ending touches come collectively fairly simply on the day of the social gathering. For this sort of social gathering, you’ll be able to embody your folks in every of the prep duties, akin to:
- Assembling the charcuterie board
- Plating the pears
- Setting the desk
- Constructing a hearth
- Lighting candles
- Pouring drinks
- Placing on a playlist they’ve been loving




With informal events like this one, a thrown-together really feel makes everybody relaxed and cozy in your house. Plan to take a seat down about 30 – 45 minutes after everybody arrives.
If a collaborative prep course of is just not your type of factor, set your desk (or espresso desk in entrance of the hearth you probably have one), construct a hearth, gentle candles, and placed on a playlist forward of time. Seize associates drinks as soon as they arrive, and invite them to put their contribution on the desk. As soon as every thing has been plated, have every particular person share somewhat be aware about what they introduced, just like the scrumptious new cheese they discovered on the market, the method of piping the frosting on the cake, and so forth. I’ve discovered speaking about meals with associates who care about meals to be beautiful.


Dessert events are brief—this one lasted two hours with my associates (from 2 to 4 p.m.). We loved a heat fireplace at my home at golden hour and have been dwelling an hour or two earlier than dinner. Parting methods, every of us went on with our busy days, with one particular person heading off to work, one other going to the grocery retailer, and one other going dwelling to get dinner began.
I like when sharing meals with associates matches into day by day life with ease.
There’s extra to come back! This entertaining sequence will proceed in 2025. We need to share tips on how to host a no-cook lunch, a meal outside, and an approachable fancy feast, amongst different concepts. Keep tuned!




Kate is the founding father of Wit & Delight. She is at the moment studying tips on how to play tennis and is without end testing the boundaries of her inventive muscle. Comply with her on Instagram at @witanddelight_.